Ask Better Quality Questions and You Will Get Better Quality Answers

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If things are not working in your business it comes down to asking better quality questions. If you want to pay less in taxes and protect your assets better…better quality questions are the answer. I learned from Tony Robbins years ago, if you ask a lousy question, you will get a lousy answer. Here are some examples of lousy questions that I have heard from business owners over the years: “Why does this always happen to me? Why doesn’t this work for me? How come I always get killed in taxes every year? How come I never have enough time? Will it work out this time? Why are all my prospects broke or cheap? Why doesn’t my marketing ever seem to work?

Here is what I know for sure, you and you only are in charge of the quality of the questions you ask yourself. If you want to improve the quality of your business and your life, you must ask better quality questions. Here are some examples:

1. What specifically can I do today to bring in more quality leads from Facebook?
2. What specifically can I improve today on my landing page to improve opt-ins?
3. What specifically can I change now in my approach to bring in more joint venture partners?

Do you see a pattern already? The first part is to ask specifically, not generally. When you ask specifically your brain has to search for a more specific way to get a result. This is a must. The second part is about accountability, something you have control over. It does not say what specifically does everyone else have to do ….it says, what specifically can “I do” today. That is a huge difference. The third part is a time frame that you want the result. If you don’t say today or now, you may be just putting your goals, improvements or results in the future. Every day, week and month go by and your results are STILL in the future! That is a PART (not the only reason) why you may not be achieving them! These are very specific tips from my NLP (neuro-linguistic training) over the years. You may find that you may be still not getting your goals. Another step to add that will help is to ask another empowering question called an “ecology question”. An “ecology question” is one where you check into the future to determine if you achieving this goal will it harm or hurt anyone? You may be thinking why would making more money hurt anyone? What if you are away from your family 70 hours per week and your spouse has to do twice as much work? What will the effects be on your relationship?

Here are some other empowering questions that you may want to write down and put in front of you each day to help with your results and energy level:

1. What am I most excited about today in my business?
2. What was the best part of my day today?
3. What am I looking forward to today in my business?
4. How specifically can I generate more joint ventures today with more quality target leads?
5. What can I do today to be more productive with my time and work 2 hours less and be just as or more effective than previously?
6. How can I delegate more work to free up my schedule to spend more quality time with my family?

Another key to getting results in this area is to fully associate to the question and feeling, not just ask it, get an answer for a moment and move on. What I mean by fully associate is to discover what would it sound like to be fully excited about the day, what does it look like, what does that really feel like when you are excited about the day and allow yourself a couple of minutes to step into that amazing feeling! If you are not looking forward to some part of your day ask, “What part could I be excited about during this part of my day?” The key language is “what part” which means one part your brain immediately searches for, there is nothing I am excited about I have a lot of work. Your goal is to find a part of that work that you could be excited about. Maybe you are going to have a new breakthrough and it will help with another project to move it along. That may be the part that is beneficial. This is not always easy,
especially when things are not going well in your business, but this alone will help change your state and get you back on the right track to results faster than anything else you can do. Changing your physiology is key also and to do that you will have to ask a better quality question up front.

I would recommend you write down 3-5 key questions that you know will help keep you focused and help you obtain better results each day. Put those on a 3 by 5 note card and put them where you work, perhaps taped to your computer so you take time every day (and perhaps many times a day). Along the top, I would recommend you write, “The Quality of My Life and Business is a Result of the Quality of Questions I Ask”.

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